How I stopped freaking out when speaking to people | A journey with 4 lessons

Denial

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Change

full speech here, for the Roumaninans out there ;)
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1. The most powerful thing to know is that it’s okay to fuck up

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2. Encouraging others is the best way of dealing with your own fear

that fear becomes smaller for both of you

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3. You don’t conquer fear. You learn to live with it

My fear never went away. I just learned to live with it.

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4. It’s absolutely worth it

“if public speaking didn’t kill me, this won’t kill me either”

Final thoughts

Kudos to you, for keeping an open mind in front of so many fears and insecurities!

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Tech guy • Explorer • Avid public speaker, writer and Latino dancer. Still looking for the perfect bio. https://dbln.me/

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Dragos Bilaniuc

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Tech guy • Explorer • Avid public speaker, writer and Latino dancer. Still looking for the perfect bio. https://dbln.me/

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